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Kya aapne kabhi notice kiya hai.. jaise hi aap apne baby se thoda sa bhi door jaate hain, turant rona shuru kar deta hai?... Chahe sirf kuch seconds ke liye hi kyu na ho. baby ko lagta hai, jaise kuch galat ho gaya ho. wo express to rone se hi kr sakta hai. Ye actually ek signal hota hai… ek message… jo baby aap tak pahunchane ki koshish karta hai. Ek chhote baby ke point of view se dekhiye… Wo aapko dekhta hai… aap uski poori duniya hote ho… Aur achanak… aap uski nazar se gayab ho jaate ho… Usi moment pe baby confused ho jata hai… Wo idhar-udhar dekhta hai… samajhne ki koshish karta hai… ki wo insaan kahan gaya? Baby ke liye… jab aap nazar se out ho jaate ho… to aisa lagta hai jaise aap exist hi nahi karte… Is concept ko kehte hain… Object Permanence. Yani… koi insaan nazron se door hone ke baad bhi exist karta hai… Aur ye ability 6–8 months ke baad develop hoti hai. To jab baby rota hai… wo actually feel kar raha hota hai… Mera pas wale kahan gaya? Main akela kyun hoon? Kya main safe hoon? Isliye yaad rakhiye… Crying is not a problem… Crying is communication. Ab baat karte hain kuch common mistakes ki… Bina bataye chale jaana… Baby ke rone par gussa ho jana… Uski feelings ignore kar dena… Ye chhoti chhoti cheezein baby ke andar insecurity badha deti hain…